Men are Toys

I have this theory that is reinforced daily.

Men are simple creatures - we all know this. They need three things to survive as my friend MS says: Sex, beer and sports - in that order. The longer I am single, the more I agree with this.

Through my own and my friends experiences I have seen nothing but patterns of men who are looking for sexual gratification while masking it with friendship and "honesty". Don't get me wrong, women are just as guilty of this as well, but it is far less frequent from the female side of the house. Most of us women are looking for someone to be faithful to us, madly in love with us and independently wealthy.

I again am somewhere in the middle (and a bit of a hypocrite). I want sex from a man who is madly faithful to me and independent wealth is a bonus. What about love you may ask? What of it? Love, like loyalty, is more easily found in friendships. Sex - at least where most of us are looking for it - is about the magnetism. Once you quench that thirst (a.k.a. - lust), the thrill too is gone.

Don't get me wrong, I am sure that some people find everything in one. I say "more power to them", but I am living in the Realist Universe. And I am kissing many more frogs than princes. But no one said you can't have great fun, and mind-blowing sex in the process!

Play ball!